There are so many great books that can be used to support you in your efforts to change. Here are some of the best that i have found for helping through the difficult issues. The titles are divided along subject types.
Loving The Adult Child Of An Alcoholic by Douglas Bey and Deborah Bey
The Art & Science of Love: A Couples Workshop on DVD by John Gottman PhD
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman PhD
And Baby Makes Three: The Six-Step Plan for Preserving Marital Intimacy and Rekindling Romance After Baby Arrives by John Gottman PhD
Love Is a Choice: The Definitive Book on Letting Go of Unhealthy Relationships By Paul Meier
Loving the Adult Child of An Alcoholic by Douglas bey and Deborah Bey
If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?: Ten Strategies That Will Change Your Love Life Forever by Susan Page
